It always amazes me that people think Marriage is a crazy idea and sex has nothing to do with a faithful committed relationship. For many this is just old fashioned or the dogmatic myth of religion imposing its laws on us to rob us of fun and enjoyment. But the serious truth is unless our generation wakes up society is over, that being a safe loving caring faithful society. Where love is a choice, not a feeling.
With the rise of modernism, which denies spiritual life, sex has no necessary purpose or significance. Individuals use sex however they choose, and what they choose does not matter to anyone else. Sex is strictly a personal choice and the only thing everyone must except is that everyone has the right to have sex regardless of whether or not he or she is married. For them sex justifies marriage, marriage does not justify sex. Sex is actually for these people nothing special. It is just a commodity one consumes without creating or assuming anything beyond the immediate experience. I mean if you think you’re here by chance, just an evolved wild beast, why not live like they do, fulfilling every sexual desire.
Cant the world see that some thing is wrong, sex is every where, free and for all. The United States Census in 2000 showed that two-parent families now represent less than 25 percent of all households in America, down from 45 percent as recently as 1960. The divorce rate has doubled and the percentage of people getting married at all has dropped lower than ever before, says Professor Daniel Heimbach.
Dr. Heimbach in his book “True Sexual Morality” also says,
“The rate of illegitimacy (births to unmarried women) rose by more than 500 percent. But while this rise in illegitimate births is terrible, the actual rise in illegitimate pregnancy has been at least two to three times higher, because 80 percent of abortions in America are performed on women who are not married.”
So in a way not getting married is promoting the killing of the unborn.
When you reject true sexual morality and think that every view has no more value than any other does, one is free to live how they like. But in time society will collapse.
Lets look at the spiral effect from Dr. Heimbach book,
1. Biblical marriage, man and women, sex in marriage.
2.Sexual morality.
3. Sex without consequences.
4. Sex without commitments.
5. Sex in any form.
6. Threatens sanctity of procreation and the sanctity of marriage.
7. Threatens sanctity of life, no family units,
8. Destroys respect for life, for self, for others, for community, for truth, for authority and for accountability.
9. Weakens laws, government, and family.
10. Leads to family brake down, divorce, unwed single parenting, cohabitation, undisciplined children, teen pregnancy, pornography, rape, abuse, abortion, euthanasia, homosexuality, domestic partnerships, prostitution, and gender role confusion.
11. Leads to crime, drugs, murder, suicide, riots, truancy, violence, poverty, litigiousness, and economic weakness.
12. Leads to eventual social collapse.
There has been a great shift from thinking sexual discipline is a moral solution, to thinking sexual discipline is a moral problem. There has been a shift from thinking sex is a privilege reserved for people committed to certain goals, to thinking every one should act like animals in the wild.
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Who is Your Hero ?
Every one in society looks for a role model to follow. We do this because we are part off a world we did not create, but find ourselves a part off. We seek to be accepted and be part of other people’s lives to gain understanding and love. But who is your hero?
I mean who ever is your role model is the person you are going to copy. The problem with society once it casted God of his Throne in their imagination is that there is no perfect standard above our own desires and wants. So we make laws to justify our evil desires or make rules to make our lives more sufficient. For example why not make prostitution legal, so that people can get what they want on a tap with no commitments. Why not let girls earn money this way, there only getting abused and letting their whole understanding of faithfulness and true love be destroyed before their eyes. For them sex is just a lust to be fed when ever, how ever, nothing scarred or meaningful. Lets try another example Why not make it legal for euthanasia or abortion. Never mind killing innocent people, as long as the burden is off us, all is good. This is why we need a perfect law above the hearts of man, so that we don’t make rules to fit our sick natures.
The hero you follow is the model you will shape society with. It’s sad that many parents these days are not good role models for their children. In fact some children act more normal than their parents. But their parent’s actions will shape them and their actions. A broken family will likely produce a broken kid. If parents can’t show a decent example or act as a normal functioning moral person, where are the children of today supposed to go to understand their place in this world and know how one should act. Should they go looking for our great role models from Hollywood, who have all the frame and money, but cant even keep a marriage together or say no to drugs. Just driven with lust and frame. What about the music world, should we all be indoctrinated with Gangster life styles, the dream of money, sex and beautiful women, but in reality just guns and violence. Or should our role models come from a different genre of music where women just sell their songs by lust and flesh, making them out to be sex objects for any one who likes the song. Why not tease, and then pull away, it only drive’s people to be sex addicts, rapists or Pedo’s, because sex has been trashed. Or should we seek some where else for a hero for society. Maybe Jesus the one people think is so old fashion and out of touch with reality should be our role model. He could reform society with ease.
But we believe we can make our own role models according to our likes and feelings, we don’t need God. We believe everything is ok as long as you don’t hurt anyone to the best of your definition of hurt and to the best of your knowledge. Oh we believe in sex before, during and after marriage. We believe in the therapy of sin, that adultery is fun, that sodomy is ok, that taboo’s are taboo.
We believe that everything is getting better despite evidence to the contrary. We believe there something in horoscopes UFO’s and bent spoons. Jesus was a good man just like Buddha, Mohammed and ourselves. He was a good teacher although we think his morals are bad. We believe that man is essentially good it’s just his behavior that lets him down. This is the fault of society. Society is the fault of conditions. Conditions are the fault of society.
We believe that each man must find the truth that is right for him. Reality will adapt accordingly. The universe will adjust. History will alter. We believe there is no absolute truth, excepting the truth that there are no absolute truths. We believe what’s selected is average, what’s average is normal, what’s normal is good. We believe morality evolved by chance determined by our genes, we desire it, so it’s right. we reject any idea of a correct way to function accroding to a designer, we just sleep with any thing that shows a response.
This is the nonsense that we have to put up with when one refuses to acknowledge God and his ways. Be careful who your role model is?
I mean who ever is your role model is the person you are going to copy. The problem with society once it casted God of his Throne in their imagination is that there is no perfect standard above our own desires and wants. So we make laws to justify our evil desires or make rules to make our lives more sufficient. For example why not make prostitution legal, so that people can get what they want on a tap with no commitments. Why not let girls earn money this way, there only getting abused and letting their whole understanding of faithfulness and true love be destroyed before their eyes. For them sex is just a lust to be fed when ever, how ever, nothing scarred or meaningful. Lets try another example Why not make it legal for euthanasia or abortion. Never mind killing innocent people, as long as the burden is off us, all is good. This is why we need a perfect law above the hearts of man, so that we don’t make rules to fit our sick natures.
The hero you follow is the model you will shape society with. It’s sad that many parents these days are not good role models for their children. In fact some children act more normal than their parents. But their parent’s actions will shape them and their actions. A broken family will likely produce a broken kid. If parents can’t show a decent example or act as a normal functioning moral person, where are the children of today supposed to go to understand their place in this world and know how one should act. Should they go looking for our great role models from Hollywood, who have all the frame and money, but cant even keep a marriage together or say no to drugs. Just driven with lust and frame. What about the music world, should we all be indoctrinated with Gangster life styles, the dream of money, sex and beautiful women, but in reality just guns and violence. Or should our role models come from a different genre of music where women just sell their songs by lust and flesh, making them out to be sex objects for any one who likes the song. Why not tease, and then pull away, it only drive’s people to be sex addicts, rapists or Pedo’s, because sex has been trashed. Or should we seek some where else for a hero for society. Maybe Jesus the one people think is so old fashion and out of touch with reality should be our role model. He could reform society with ease.
But we believe we can make our own role models according to our likes and feelings, we don’t need God. We believe everything is ok as long as you don’t hurt anyone to the best of your definition of hurt and to the best of your knowledge. Oh we believe in sex before, during and after marriage. We believe in the therapy of sin, that adultery is fun, that sodomy is ok, that taboo’s are taboo.
We believe that everything is getting better despite evidence to the contrary. We believe there something in horoscopes UFO’s and bent spoons. Jesus was a good man just like Buddha, Mohammed and ourselves. He was a good teacher although we think his morals are bad. We believe that man is essentially good it’s just his behavior that lets him down. This is the fault of society. Society is the fault of conditions. Conditions are the fault of society.
We believe that each man must find the truth that is right for him. Reality will adapt accordingly. The universe will adjust. History will alter. We believe there is no absolute truth, excepting the truth that there are no absolute truths. We believe what’s selected is average, what’s average is normal, what’s normal is good. We believe morality evolved by chance determined by our genes, we desire it, so it’s right. we reject any idea of a correct way to function accroding to a designer, we just sleep with any thing that shows a response.
This is the nonsense that we have to put up with when one refuses to acknowledge God and his ways. Be careful who your role model is?
Saturday, May 3, 2008
Heterosexuality is a Universal Cultural Norm (Part2)
When it comes to our sexuality, is it a matter of personal taste or preferences or is it due to our created gender and created order. Is heterosexuality just another preference, like homosexuality? I think we must be careful here because people will say that its not a preference but is who I am. I did not chose to like the same sex, but this is what I found myself to like and to be.
One must be careful when one says, “This is how I feel or am meant to be”. Does this mean that our sexual preferences are based on “feelings” or on correct union of genders. Is what is right based on what we feel, or does our created nature tell us something about reality. One truth that we can not get away from is that heterosexuality is a universal cultural norm, it is not just a preference. The union of a male and female in a family unit with procreation and kids is what keeps society functioning healthy. Therefore homosexuality is endangering society and humanity. Without this norm humanity would come to extinction and not exist. If homosexuality were a universal norm, life would not continue. If life is to continue the way it always has been heterosexuality must be classed as a universal and cultural norm.
If our sexuality was based on just our “feelings” then who could deny any combinations of relationship, including sisters or brothers. Feelings are a dangerous place to define what is right and what is wrong. What happens if you like animals or young kids, or Grandparents, or even tree’s? Definition should be based on adult consent of correct use of genders according to a universal norm if right and wrong have any meaning at all. A Male and a Females body connects in harmony perfectly, they are designed to connect and reproduce. Our feelings, which can at times be wrong, must be defined by our gender and physical natures.
If our genders define our sexuality and keep our feelings in order, then we are what we have been created to be and not what we feel we like to be. If heterosexuality demonstrates a universal norm, what do we mean by “norm”. Does this imply what is normal, what is right or what is good for humanity, or what works…I think the answer implies all of them in some way. Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying homosexual people are evil or perverts, but what I am saying is that they have misunderstood there relationship with reality and our correct function to exist. Some might say we can live how we want, we can adopt children or use artificial ways to have children to keep humanity running. But this again is wrong. Why should we change what is normal and has worked perfectly well since time began. Why not accept that some of our feelings go against our created natures and genders. Some feelings are just wrong, out of correct balance with reality and God.
To say one is just born this way, opens up many questions. What does this mean?
Is this based on your gender or your feelings? If your feelings then you cannot condemn the person that likes to sleep with animals or with kids or the rapist who say’s his feelings come from the way he was born. We all have many feelings, but how are we to know that we were born this way to have these desires, which we class as true and correct, if there is no design or purpose to reality. If any feelings can be classed as wrong, then they must be judged against a standard that the universe is supposed to be following. I mean we were all born, and we all act according to feelings, so does that mean that all feelings have the same value and worth and truth content as each other. To say that I was born this way, if there is no correct standard doesn’t really put any weight to an argument.
One must be careful when one says, “This is how I feel or am meant to be”. Does this mean that our sexual preferences are based on “feelings” or on correct union of genders. Is what is right based on what we feel, or does our created nature tell us something about reality. One truth that we can not get away from is that heterosexuality is a universal cultural norm, it is not just a preference. The union of a male and female in a family unit with procreation and kids is what keeps society functioning healthy. Therefore homosexuality is endangering society and humanity. Without this norm humanity would come to extinction and not exist. If homosexuality were a universal norm, life would not continue. If life is to continue the way it always has been heterosexuality must be classed as a universal and cultural norm.
If our sexuality was based on just our “feelings” then who could deny any combinations of relationship, including sisters or brothers. Feelings are a dangerous place to define what is right and what is wrong. What happens if you like animals or young kids, or Grandparents, or even tree’s? Definition should be based on adult consent of correct use of genders according to a universal norm if right and wrong have any meaning at all. A Male and a Females body connects in harmony perfectly, they are designed to connect and reproduce. Our feelings, which can at times be wrong, must be defined by our gender and physical natures.
If our genders define our sexuality and keep our feelings in order, then we are what we have been created to be and not what we feel we like to be. If heterosexuality demonstrates a universal norm, what do we mean by “norm”. Does this imply what is normal, what is right or what is good for humanity, or what works…I think the answer implies all of them in some way. Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying homosexual people are evil or perverts, but what I am saying is that they have misunderstood there relationship with reality and our correct function to exist. Some might say we can live how we want, we can adopt children or use artificial ways to have children to keep humanity running. But this again is wrong. Why should we change what is normal and has worked perfectly well since time began. Why not accept that some of our feelings go against our created natures and genders. Some feelings are just wrong, out of correct balance with reality and God.
To say one is just born this way, opens up many questions. What does this mean?
Is this based on your gender or your feelings? If your feelings then you cannot condemn the person that likes to sleep with animals or with kids or the rapist who say’s his feelings come from the way he was born. We all have many feelings, but how are we to know that we were born this way to have these desires, which we class as true and correct, if there is no design or purpose to reality. If any feelings can be classed as wrong, then they must be judged against a standard that the universe is supposed to be following. I mean we were all born, and we all act according to feelings, so does that mean that all feelings have the same value and worth and truth content as each other. To say that I was born this way, if there is no correct standard doesn’t really put any weight to an argument.
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